This morning, I found in a book, a cartoon called "spoil". After watching, I feel quite a lot.
This cartoon is a little girl fell into a well is not high. She could have climbed up, but she didn't do it but call her mother pulled him up. As you can see, the girl in her parents' spoiling, has become a "clothing to hand, foot" "little princess".
I think mom's practice in the picture is wrong. The rapid development of today's society, need a lot of talent, but the premise is that these people not only have talents, but also to have independent practice ability. The girl in the picture under the family spoiling did not learn to independent practice ability, so she will eventually be eliminated by high-speed development of social.
China and the United States education, cultivate their methods are different. In China most families have only one child, so will they regarded as the "eye", it's not let dry, don't let the dry, and they were afraid their children tired. So, most Chinese children don't understand the importance of independent ability, also did not exercise.
And America's education method and our China far, while their children give them care before the age of three, but after three years old children will learn to cook mop the floor, clean the room and so on all the housework. Children to grow up in the process, learned knowledge and practice, and become useful talents for society. Thus, the method of American education children Chinese better than us.
Dear mom and dad, don't spoil our again, it will only hurt us! Let us learn to independence, for their own with wings to fly to the future!
Ah! I want to eat chocolate, chocolate! I smell the prestige, a two-year-old boy is crying on the seat to eat chocolate, composition Indulgence does not equal love. Good, good, good! Wait a minute to get off to buy you! A woman feels the boy's head and said. Can the boy cry more and more big, on the car everyone frowns, but the woman did no kerosene realized that, face without embarrassment.
Is this the parents of the child's education now? As long as the child to want what, parents will buy them! Blind, without thinking, regardless of other people. Now most of the children, teenager, young people are only children, is the home of eye. Everyone around them in the home, formed the nausea of clothing to hand and foot. Like the little boy, just only 2 years old, he wants chocolate, the aunt immediately promised to him, even if he cry cry, aunt will tolerate, will not feel influence others. Does the boy want chocolate today, you can give; Tomorrow want to toys, you also can give; Later, he wanted the princess, can you give him? Blind love really is the divine love? No! Maybe, it's just love a spoil.
The real love, what is father? Looking and searching, searching
Walking in the rain, in the sight of the big two figure figure on the left hand holding a umbrella, small figure standing on her left carrying pink bag, little girl zou eyebrows, cocked his head to ask dad: dad, umbrella with slanting! No, the junior middle school second grade composition composition Indulgence does not equal love. Uncle anxiously answer at will. And go for a while, the girl found dad right arm clothes were wet, they warned: dad, umbrella is really bad, you got tired, I'll hold! No, no, baby grew up to help dad umbrellas! Uncle kindly smile, the face is permeated with happiness. To go behind them but I see clearly, bright eye antivir is leaning to the little girl is over there.